I answered most of it in the main post...
1) What is your url ( website address)? again
http://lapog.com
2) Description of your website: its gonna be an art site...
3) List 3 template designs on FWT you really like: I couldnt find any
4) List 3 websites which you think look great ( doesn't need to be similar to your sites):
http://www.jasonbeamstudios.com/ http://www.home13.net/ http://sex-magic.home.comcast.net/
5) List 3 similar websites: can't really find any, just look at the site currently and just relise I want to upgrade it so it has basically the same lay out but differnt colors and a new feel.
6) Do you have any images/photos that can be used for the template ( only copyright free ones )?: no, I rather there be no images used for the template, just frames and table boarders.
7) Any colors you prefer?: again, dark colors.